Tuesday, April 8, 2008

告别尿片

上一次在尿片纪事中有提到说阿鼻开始有迹象显示他也许不必在晚上睡觉时穿尿片了,但是后来经过了无数次的尿床纪录后,我们就决定重新买过新的一包尿片放在家里好让阿鼻在晚上睡觉时可以安心穿。结果是,在阿鼻穿上尿片之后,他竟然都不会在尿湿尿片,有时还会在晚上睡到一半时醒来叫鼻爸带他上厕所!就这样,过了一段这样的日子后,我决定让阿鼻脱离穿尿片的日子。毕竟现在的他穿尿片也只是象征性的穿一穿,第二天又是干干的,所以我觉得是时候让他和接触了三年的尿片说再见了……


在刚开始的那几个晚上,我都是用试探性的方式去问阿鼻要不要穿尿片,结果我发现到阿鼻每一次都点头说要。后来我就决定选择用引导性的方式- 我告诉阿鼻说尿片用完了(其实一整包才用了几片!),我问他要不要穿training pants,阿鼻毅然决然的回绝我,并且告诉我他要穿尿片。无可奈何下我就只有‘变’出一块尿片出来让他穿,傻傻的阿鼻也从来不会问我为什么之前说用完了,现在又有尿片穿呢?嘿嘿,有时生个傻儿子还是有好处的……

问了几次后我觉得阿鼻可能是抗拒training pants才会这么说,于是我就问阿鼻说为什么不喜欢穿training pants?

阿鼻告诉我说他不喜欢training pants的质感,穿的时候会有沙沙声(非常轻的)。

于是我再问阿鼻:那,如果不穿training pants,该穿什么呢?

阿鼻:穿……小裤裤……

就这样,阿鼻就开始了晚上穿小裤裤而不是尿片的日子了。好说这样的日子已经有一个多星期了,再加上之前穿尿片没有尿湿尿片的纪录,我想,阿鼻应该可以正式脱离尿片了~

阿鼻,妈咪真的没有想到你可以那么快就不用穿尿片了,我不知道别的小孩是在几岁开始没有穿尿片的,那对我来说真的不重要,因为妈咪心里知道你有你自己成长的步伐。对于我来说,你在三岁多时就可以成功脱离尿片,而其中的经过竟然是那么自然,容易的,我真的打从心里为你感到骄傲!也感激你让我在照顾你和弟弟的日子中,减轻了我的负担,谢谢你!

10 comments:

湘绣蜻蜓 said...

嘿。。我都说阿鼻是个乖巧的哥哥。
你们没有白疼他。。

王大娘 said...

真真真羡慕!现在奶粉尿片吃喝拉,每样都在涨价。我巴望着孩子快点分担那万物百涨的压力!

萍凡女子 said...

我也很羡慕嘢,儿子还是会尿床,虽然没穿尿片了。。。。

阿鼻的妈 said...

蜻蜓,我也这么认为,只是当阿鼻特别坏蛋时,自己还是忍不住会教训他,而将他的好给忘得一干二净了:(

大娘,慢慢来,虽然你的负担是我的两倍,但是起码你已经快到‘终点’了,而我却还有一个在起步点呢,嘿嘿~ :P

萍凡女子,昨天阿鼻才不小心尿床了,虽然说意外还是会有的,不过我还是觉得很满足了!

Steven Christine said...

congra. he can sleep without diaper, i still training suzanne, suzanne has just able to write her name. Is your boy able or learning it ? Do advise how u train him via email or here.

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got her writting there.

阿鼻的妈 said...

Hi, Christine!Frankly speaking, every child has their very own 'development schedule',there's no way we can force them to become what we want them to be, especially for toddlers. However, there'll be symptoms which could help you to identify if your child is ready for the next stage's development. Take the 'diaper-less training' for example, ah bi has shown the signs where he's ready to go for 'diaper-less' before we start making effort to put him on training pants, and waking him up at the wee hours for pee-pee. It's surely a challenge for both the parents and the child initially, but when the child has built the confident (wihtout having to pee on the bed), they'll slowly wake you up when they have the urge without you having to wake them up first! Patience and understanding are the keywords in this case, just remember don't scold them whenever 'accident' happens and slowly they will be able to sleep through the night without having to pee in the middle of the night.

As for the name writing, i'm glad that suzanne has already known how to write her own name, you must be very proud of her! i didn't teach him how to write his name as yet, but he is learning how to write alphabets and numbers, which to me it is considered to be very good already,he he :P

cK said...

恭喜阿鼻又迈向成长的另一个阶段,加油~
哈哈,无形中阿鼻也替鼻爸省下了买尿片的钱。

阿鼻的妈 said...

cK,谢谢你!省是省了,不过我们现在正在伤脑筋该怎么处理那剩余的尿片……小的还在穿M,离XL还有段距离呢!

杉叶 said...

我在女儿27个月时诞下小的,有点担心她会出现书上说的“倒退行为”(因为那时她刚停止穿尿片),所以买了XL尿片作准备。结果也没用上。这样看来,女儿停止穿尿片的时间倒是挺早的。而且也好久没发生尿床事件了。不小心尿在裤裤的结果,就是挫败感的大哭一场。

阿鼻的妈 said...

杉叶,你女儿真的好懂事……你真的该好好的疼她哦~^_^